The Chaos of Knowing Yourself

access consciousness dr dain heer intimacy Nov 15, 2025
 


Have you ever felt you needed to be perfect to be—and stay—loved? 🙂

Well, what if that is a lie?
What if perfection is one of the biggest barriers to intimacy on this whole darn planet?

And what if a little chaos is the missing ingredient in most of our relationships?

Our guest on this episode of Getting Intimate is a regular—a tenacious intimacy-seeker, energy virtuoso, and one of the most inspiring people I know, Dr. Dain Heer!

Key Takeaways:

• The only space we’re ever going to have intimacy with another is when we have it for ourselves.
• The biggest eliminator of intimacy and vulnerability is judgement.
• Chaos always creates more possibilities.
• Having fun is when you’re not judging anyone or anything including you, especially you.

Resources: 
Explore Access Consciousness!
More from Dr. Dain Heer.
More from Katarina Wallentin.


Dain Heer is an internationally renowned author, speaker, and facilitator of consciousness and change. For over 20 years, he has been inviting people to embrace their true greatness—people from every culture, country, age, and social strata of society.

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